March 16, 2009
I used to resent my parochial, old-fashioned Caribbean upbringing. Full of small town family values, civility rules and codes of decent conduct, I felt morally restrained in comparison to some of my peers whose families did not stress the importance of honesty and Christian faith the way mine did.
Whenever I read the story about some unscrupulous banker who robbed working families blind or a tale about the crooked dealings of lobbyists and our elected officials, I say a prayer of thanksgiving for my mother and grandmother. I thank God they did not raise me to be a jerk.
I’m not saying that I am an angel or even that I have never been a jerk (I’m sure their are a few folk out there who can testify to my ability to wreck the buffet when I am ready).
What I am saying is that there are certain things I just won’t do, and I’m cool with that.
I won’t be letting my wife take a role in “Monster’s Ball” one year and then watch Adrien Brody lung her on stage the next.
I won’t be expecting the public school system to educate my children on what it means to be a sovereign citizen in this new world.
I won’t be laying face down while a misguided and poorly trained officer accidentally/on purpose discharges his firearm into my back.
I won’t be lying to thousands of families that their money is safe while I divert their life savings to other sources for my own use.
I won’t be putting the words “nigger” or “bitch” into my rap album just to satisfy some record executive’s need to appeal to the suburban demographic with urban buffoonery.
I won’t be calling for the Manhattan County D.A. to “throw the book” at Plaxico Burress for shooting himself in the leg one week, then the next week remain totally silent on the massive financial rape and pillage committed by Bernard Madoff.
I won’t be lynching T.O. in the media for being a high-strung, talented athlete who has never done anything except want to win (and get paid) a little too badly.
I won’t be telling political stories about budget deficits and fiscal conservatism while our financial system crumbles and an entire generation of potential geniuses rot on the vine.
Often times, honesty and civility are demeaned in this society. How many times did political pundits implore President Obama to go negative and “take the gloves off” during the campaign?
During my three years studying law at Howard University in Washington D.C., I would often drive through Rock Creek Park. There was a three way merge in the middle of the park that would back up with traffic during rush hour. The first time I witnessed three lanes of traffic merging in turn, politely and without need of a traffic officer or stop light I was amazed.
This could never happen in New York I thought; there would be an accident every morning.
My wife and I went to Bali for our honeymoon and I was struck by how genuinely polite, pleasant and decent many of the Balinese people were. Some were clearly hardened by contact with Western culture but many were really that nice.
If its possible in Rock Creek Park and Bali its possible on Nostrand Avenue, Wall Street and Capitol Hill.
Thanks Mum… Thanks Mummy
A. Baraka Scott (… brother from another)
